“Holy crap guys so I just about confirmed from people in my hometown today that I died! This girl posts a picture of us together, but she didn’t tag me and the whole post was in past tense about how we weren’t close friends, but she’ll always remember me and how beautiful and wonderful I …
I’ve just read a very sad story from a funeral director in Chicago who said that white families are being given two weeks to contract with a funeral home to care for their loved one, whereas black families are being given a matter of hours.
That’s a casket! It’s wooden or metal with a gasket. See this, that’s a coffin not a casket. It’s a pet peeve of mine, I’m done asking. It’s a casket.
If you find yourself in a funeral home again- which you probably won’t because we’re in the middle of a pandemic and we’re all trapped at home- but if you do, and you look around the casket you’ll notice that a lot of them tend to employ these things we call flower stands. They are …
At this one particular funeral home, one of the directors decided that he would try to eliminate a step in the process so that he could go home a little bit earlier and you know maybe get an extra 20 minutes of sleep.
Not all of us have the luxury of knowing that we’re going to have a need for things like funeral arrangements and legal documents and financial arrangements. By making them in advance, things are there when you need them, so that when a death unexpectedly occurs, as it did in this scenario, you’re protected.
So now this funeral director is in this place where he’s horribly backed up, but he’s got to find some way to do something for this man, to give him an opportunity to say goodbye to his only family member, who he can’t even believe is gone because he hasn’t seen him in weeks.
He hasn’t seen his son in weeks thanks to the isolation that’s in place, and he’s beside himself he doesn’t know what to do. And you will not believe the lengths that this funeral director went to, to care for this man.